1. Both the mother and father must be compact pick
parenting will be applied to children. Do not fickle and capricious that
children do not become confused.
2. Be a parent who exemplifies the exemplary children with
positive things in everyday life. Do not let children forced to do the good
things that parents do not want to do it. Children will respect and appreciate
their parents so that as adults will love the parents and other family members.
3. Adjust parenting with the situation, capabilities and
needs of the child. Parenting toddlers would be different with parenting teens.
Do not educate children who can not afford the cost bailed her parents. Keep
children easily understand what we want without feeling any coercion, but on
the basis of self-awareness.
4. Discipline should still be given in guiding children
since its childhood to adulthood for children to be independent and respected
and honored for the community. Little things like getting out of bed on time,
helping parents housework, study hard, is one form of teaching discipline and
responsibility in children.
5. prioritizing and cultivate early religious and moral
values in children so that the future can be a pious person and have a good
attitude and behavior and religion. Pious child will always pray for the
parents who have given birth to and raise even though her parents had died.
6. Communication is done openly and fun with certain
restrictions so that children are accustomed open to parents when there are
things to be conveyed or thing that bothers him. If angry parents should use
good expression and indirectly the child so that the child can understand not
necessarily be closed and assume parents are not fun.
7. Avoid negative action on child like scolding a child for
no reason, having the child go around like a maid without limit, dropping the
child's mental, smoking, lazy worship, menbodoh-fooling children, often lying
to children, to bring home the stress of the office, feeding of money
illegitimate children, reluctant to take care of children, too busy with work
and so forth.